Tag - Takeaways of 2007

Since I am still juggling blogging with other chores around the house, I decided to go with another tag. Zawi of Life As I See It encouraged me to try this one titled "Takeaways of 2007", initiated by Jaflam of Jaff Point. This tag is about sharing 3 takeaways from 2007.

Last year was a year filled with blessings, challenges and moving (twice!). We left Germany after six years. While it was sad to leave a lovely country that’s so rich in history and culture, I was glad to return to our own house. Before the year ended, we moved again. Luckily, this time it was just one hour away. We did not have to deal with customs, immigration and the whole nine yards.

So, what did I learn or experience last year that was significant enough to be etched in my memory?

Firstly, people come into my life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. This lesson is somehow taught to me every year. While it is still early to say who will be my pals for a lifetime, I would like to believe that the ones whom I know now will remain till death do us part. The ones who were there for a reason or a season waltzed into my life to be there with me through certain phases in my life or to teach me valuable lessons. One thing I observed from a seasonal pal's actions in 2007 is that there is no need to try and prove one’s worth to the world. The world will see one’s worth through one’s genuine deeds. This seasonal pal also affirmed my third observation.

Secondly, it is easier to deal with the hard times when I focus on the blessings I have. It is easy to complain that life is unfair to me or that other people are luckier than me during challenging times. Dwelling on those thoughts only sends me spiraling deeper into self pity. However when I focus on the blessings, which I take for granted, life is not that bad at all.

Lastly, everyone has a purpose in life. Not everyone is meant for the boardroom. We still need people to do those “it is a dirty job but somebody’s got to do it” kind of work. Apart from those jobs, we need people to carry out dangerous work like climb poles to fix things so that they can help deliver conveniences to our homes such as electricity, telephone, satellite TV. We still need factory workers to help produce things for consumers. We need support staff to help bosses with their selective hearing and memory (whoops! my apologies to bosses out there), and work through ungodly hours to meet deadlines. We also need stay-at-home moms and dads to take care of their families. Just because someone is not "up there", it does not mean that person is not ambitious.

In short, everyone is important in this life, not just the man or woman sitting on top of the ladder. For every man or woman sitting comfortably on top, there are many more people holding up that ladder for them.

Tagged

I found a free hour today amidst my busy schedule and decided to update my blog. What could I do that did not require much effort? A tag!

I was tagged by Ruby Ahmad late last year and within days (or maybe hours) re-tagged by Zawi, I thought it is best not to put this off any longer. So, here's something till I find the time to blog again ....


1. Name one person who made you laugh last night. My other half - the way he was teasing the dog just tickled me.

2. What were you doing at 0800? Trying to get the services of a plumber.

3. What were you doing 30 minutes ago? Sweeping, mopping and straightening out my humble abode.

4. What happened to you in 2006? Moved from one place to another .... a lot! In fact, it has not stopped. Hopefully our last move over Christmas 2007 will be final ... well, at least for a few years.

5. What was the last thing you said out loud? Peanut!!!! (my dog was trying to get into my tall aluminium kitchen bin. He has learned to stand against the bin and lift the lid with his nose. Bad boy!)

6. How many beverages did you have today? Two - coffee in the morning. Iced tea at lunch time.

7. What color is your hairbrush? Black, which I hardly use. I prefer a comb.

8. What was the last thing you paid for? New tail lights for my Jeep. arrggghh! (yes, you can guess what happened there).

9. Where were you last night? In my office, at home, going over my expenses.

10. What color is your front door? Ivory.

11. Where do you keep your change? At home? I cannot reveal it here - it's a public place. :)

12. What’s the weather like today? Cloudy.

13. What’s the best ice-cream flavor? Dark chocolate.

14. What excites you? Many things, some innocent and some *ahem*

15. Do you want to cut your hair? I really don't know. I may lose strength if I do. ;)

16. Are you over the age of 25? I am 25 plus 15 years' worth of experience.

17. Do you talk a lot? Is that good or bad? I guess I talk when I have something to say.

18. Do you watch the O.C.? Sometimes ... I watch re-runs of the O.C. on Soap Channel when there is absolutely nothing else on. I like that guy, Ryan - mysterious chap! (sitted right in the middle, in front)

19. Do you know anyone named Steven? Yes, but his name is spelled S-t-e-p-h-e-n. He's my cousin.

20. Do you make up your own words? Puppy-licious - is that a new word? Has someone used it before? I use in this context - I have a very puppy-licious dog.

21. Are you a jealous person? Only if my territory is invaded.

22. Name a friend whose name starts with the letter "A". Anne Raman

23. Name a friend whose name starts with the letter ‘K’. Kenneth Forbes (brother of Eric Forbes, a blogger)

24. Who’s the first person on your received call list? My other half.

25. What does the last text message you received say? "Hello sis, r u online?"

26. Do you chew on your straw? No. (At least, I don't remember doing it).

27. Do you have curly hair? Why do we need to know this? :)

28. Where’s the next place you’re going to? The living room (after I am done with this in my office)

29. Who’s the rudest person in your life? Peanut, my puppy-licious pet.

30. What was the last thing you ate? Beef pot roast with baked potato.

31. Will you get married in the future? I hope not. One catch a lifetime is more than enough. :)

32. What’s the best movie you’ve seen in the past 2 weeks? I have not seen any new good movies lately. I did watch "Gladiator" again (for the sixth time).

33. Is there anyone you like right now? More than one.

34. When was the last time you did the dishes? A few minutes ago.

35. Are you currently depressed? If I were, I would not be doing this tag. :P

36. Did you cry today? No. It is no use "crying over spilled milk" - my busted tail lights.

37. Why did you answer and post this? It was something I could do effortlessly during a busy time. Besides, I owe Ruby "Diamonds" Ahmad and Zawi this tag.

38. Tag 5 people who would do this survey. I am leaving this open to anyone who wants to do it. If you are interested, let me know and I will add you to the list.

(Update: Looks like we have a volunteer)

1. Kaylee

On a long coffee break

New Year’s Reflections

Looking back on the months gone by,

As a new year starts and an old one ends,

We contemplate what brought us joy,

And we think of our loved ones and our friends.

Recalling all the happy times,

Remembering how they enriched our lives

We reflect upon who really counts,

As the fresh and bright new year arrives.

And when I ponder those who do,

I immediately think of you.
Thanks for being one of the reasons

I'll have a Happy New Year!

By Joanna Fuchs

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By the way, this is also to inform you that Jacqui's Curve will be inactive for a couple of weeks. I will return earlier, if I am able to. In the mean time, have a splendid 2008.

P.S. I will try to respond to all comments the soonest possible. Cheers! (oops... I can't do that with hot coffee)